Cheating of all types is on the rise. This includes: adultery, cheating employees, and even business partners who cheat.
In this article, I am going to reveal how to determine if your spouse or other-half is having an affair.
If you have a “gut-feeling”, you are most likely correct. I will explain more about that later.
Does your spouse have a habit of “working late?” A great many cheating spouses will use work to cover their nefarious activities from you.
When you question your spouse as to their whereabouts, and yes, you have that right, do they become defensive and call you names?
It’s quite common for a cheating spouse to become defensive when questioned. Don’t allow their manipulation of the situation stop you from your quest.
When you question your spouse you might hear, “You are just being jealous.” OR “It’s none of your business where I was…” Etc…
DO NOT fall for this obvious attempt at manipulation. The goal of your spouse to avoid being caught, your goal is get the extra-curricular activities into the open.
A cheating spouse will often assign a password to their phone, tablet and/or computer. The majority of cheating spouses will become defensive or angry when challenged about this.
If you hear phrases like, “You are insecure,” “Your jealousy is getting out of hand,” “It’s mine, I’ll do as I please.” etc… You can pretty much assume the worse is happening.
A healthy relationship has transparency. If someone truly loves you, they would NEVER attempt to cheat on you and/or manipulate you. Even if you are not totally convinced your spouse is cheating, contact Banff Private Investigators today. We offer free consultations.
The next sign to look for is missing money. Many spouses will find a new “friend” and then promptly shower their new “friend” with expensive gifts and the best restaurants. The best way to determine if this is happening is to review bank statements.
If your spouse becomes agitated when you ask about missing money, or when you ask about the finances, see it as a red flag.
Does your spouse head to the shower upon arriving home? Maybe they come home from work with wet hair.
They do this of course to hide the smell of their actions.
Do you suddenly have itches where there were none before? If so, there is a high probability that your spouse has brought home an STD. If you suspect this to be the case, see your doctor ASAP.
Let’s wrap this up with a few more pointers:
Remember, NEVER allow your spouse to make you feel guilty. It’s your life and relationship too. You have every right to know what is happening within your own relationship.
Keep an eye on any joint bank accounts. Cheating spouses LOVE to spend money on their new “friend.”
In a joint bank account situation, both of you own the money, not just one. Don’t allow a spouse with poor judgment to drive you into financial hardship.
Do you wonder who keeps sending your spouse text messages and when you ask, you are shot down?
In a normal and healthy relationship, the other-half, will have no problem showing you their messages etc…
If you are suddenly suffering from health problems, there is a chance your spouse has infected you with an STD. If you believe this to be the case, seek immediate medical attention.
The cheating spouse will make all sorts of excuses and will make every attempt to prevent you from learning the truth.
Remember the “gut-feeling?” It’s not really a “gut-feeling” It is in fact your subconscious mind picking up on inconsistent spousal behaviors.
You know your spouse well, in fact, you know your spouse so well that your mind has created a template of acceptable behavioral patterns based on your spouse’s past behaviors.
When your spouse does something out of the ordinary, your brain sends you warnings.
That’s where we come in. Contact Banff Private Investigators today. We can help put your mind at ease.
One of the worse most possible emotional situations is NOT knowing the truth.
Tossing and turning in bed, losing sleep and becoming stressed is not a productive way to live.
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